Virginia Beach Weddings Frequently Asked Questions

We recommend you browse through the list of frequently asked questions listed on this page - then visit the pages listed below to get a clear idea of all the different wedding themes and services we offer, and then call us for to discuss how we can create your dream wedding vision!

  • Beach Wedding Checklist Tips

  • Wedding Packages

  • Wedding Arch Styles for your Wedding

  • Pick and Choose Menu

  • Wedding Photography

  • Wedding Videography

  • Unity Sand Ceremony

  • Couples Wedding & Testimonial Pages

  • Traditional Wedding Planning

  • Showroom Information

  • Virginia Beach Clerk of Court Legal Information

  • State of Virginia Court Location

  • Destination Weddings - please email

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Who we are and what we do!

We are Caribbean Wraps International, our online catalog of beach wedding dress designs is found at www.allyouneedtowear.com - our wedding service department is the Virginia Beach Wedding Chapel - Victoria Begault is the founder and designer, her husband Bruce Begault is her partner and the two of them will set up your dream wedding ceremony site! We offer more than just a rental service, we off wedding coordination services  Maddie will be your contact by phone when you call in with questions, and actually book your wedding.  Family owned and operated since February 2000, and at any given ceremony, other family members will help create your spectacular wedding vision!

What are your prices?

We offer a wide range of pricing levels designed to meet different budgets, and offer no interest payment plans for your convenience    We have a $375 minimum - that does not include the marriage commissioner.  Our arch rentals for beach weddings start at $675.00. Keep in mind this includes our delivery, securing to the sand, and raking of your ceremony site.  We specialize in creating ceremony sites - please contact us to discuss creating your dream wedding, and we'll be happy to create a wedding ceremony you will never forget!

Why a Set up Fee?

Even for the most basic "Elopement" package, we include raking of the ceremony site, to ensure you will not be walking up to, or standing in or around beach debris left behind from beach goers. In our efforts to give you the most awesome experience and memories, we have become a "Ceremony Production Team."  In order to produce your event, the larger the scale, the more staff is required in order to ensure YOU a seamless perfectly choreographed wedding day ceremony!

We only need someone to marry us - we don't want photos or you to create a ceremony site - can you help?
Yes, please check our No Beach Frills Package - still too much for you? Visit www.vbgov.com for a list of marriage commissioners you can contact directly - as you won't need our services.

How can I check your availability?

Please call or email us toll free 800-495-9105 or local 757-495-8003  -- give us your wedding date and we'll check our schedule -  weddings@virginiabeachweddingchapel.com -- and we will get back to you as quickly as possible - our phone hours are 9 - 4 est Monday - Friday

Where can we have our wedding ceremony?

We are a mobile wedding chapel that will create YOUR ceremony site on the beach in front of your hotel, personal residence, beach home, park beach, or you can have a small intimate elopement ceremony in our indoor showroom chapel located in Kempsville (accommodates up 20 people). If you don't like sand, but like to stroll the boardwalk instead, you may even want to have your ceremony in a garden setting, gazebo on the water, inside a hotel ballroom, or other indoor location!  We will set up at the venue of your choice if we can get there!  We do not have a company owned beach front location.

What are the ideal months to have an outdoor wedding? 

During the summertime, we highly recommend against afternoon weddings (12 noon to 4pm) - 3 pm is the hottest part of the day - and dehydration and heat stroke can occur.  Spring time, Summertime (morning and evenings), September - November area nice months.   We have a great climate, but do have some months when it is a cold or very hot and humid - here is the link to www.Weather.com - use zip code 23451 for the VA Beach oceanfront - with global warming trends, it's becoming difficult to predict weather temperatures.  You do want to make sure that there are NO SPECIAL EVENTS scheduled in front of your hotel - so we recommend you check out www.vbfun.com for the best list of events at the oceanfront. **You don't want to plan for a beautiful beach ceremony only to find out that the Monster Truck exhibition is in front of your hotel!

When is the best day of the week for our wedding? 

Peak tourist season with high summer time rates apply just around Memorial Day through Labor Day. Monday-Thursday weddings are very popular and will save you money in the long run, as weekday rates are typically less expensive at the hotels. Of course on any major holiday, room rates will be higher.

I want to get married in Virginia Beach, how do I get started?

Most of our couples seem to come from out of state because everyone knows, Virginia is for Lovers!

Are we able to meet with you in person?

Absolutely! Victoria will be happy to schedule a personal showroom appointment with you. All arches and wedding set ups are on display.

What are your hours for Ceremonies?

9:00AM to 7:00 pm (Dusk) fee Includes 1-1/2 hours on-site (rates begin 30 minutes before ceremony), delivery, set up, raking of sand for bride and groom’s smooth path way, and then removal of arch - you have no worries, just arrive for your ceremony! We stay beachfront for any assistance required   *we secure and stake down our wedding arches  **we advise against mid afternoon beach front ceremonies due to heat

 

Can we have a sunrise or sunset ceremony?

WE do not offer sunrise ceremonies due to cleaning of the beach and the complexity of our ceremony sites, we are unable to set up in the dark. There is No extra fee for sunset, but if you want wedding pictures taken, allow one hour following your ceremony - SUNRISE/SUNSET TIMES TABLE

 

Do you have any Surcharge /Destination Travel Fees? 

Usually based on mileage and travel distance, we have an additional $35 fee to travel to Pungo, Munden Point/Back Bay, Eastern Suffolk, western Chesapeake, Portsmouth ..  add $100 for travel to  W Suffolk, Newport News, Hampton, Williamsburg -- Destination Weddings Out of Area  OBX - Outer Banks, Maryland, Eastern Shore - for example, we're happy to travel, but we do charge a per diem and hourly rate - please contact us for details!

 

Can we have a VOW Renewal Ceremony?

Celebrating an anniversary and renewing your wedding vows is a great idea! We are happy to arrange that service for you and our preferred marriage commissioners all perform beautiful non-denominational vow renewal ceremonies.

What about the rehearsal?

Typically held the day or night before the wedding, followed by the rehearsal dinner!  Your wedding coordinator gathers the bridal party together, meets you at the ceremony site, and you have a run through of when and how everyone walks, where they stand, etc.   Most of our ceremonies do not need a rehearsal, unless you are having a large bridal party.   Our fee to attend and coordinate your wedding rehearsal is $150.00. 

How long does the wedding ceremony last?

The typical civil ceremony length runs between 10 to 20 minutes long - depending on if you have any special readings, music, or performing a sand ceremony. It then takes about 30-45 minutes to take wedding photos, depending on the size of your group.

What happens if my ceremony does not start on time?

Starting on time depends on you and your pre-planning!   We are set up 30 minutes prior to the ceremony time, allowing for guests to gather and mingle. Your Marriage Commissioner arrives at least 15 minutes prior to the ceremony, and will have multiple weddings on any given day.  Our services typically include 1.5 hours of beach front ceremony site time.  Allowing one hour for your ceremony and post ceremony photos to be taken.  After that one hour time frame, you will incur a $50 per half hour extra fee if you go over.  You will be charged and receive a bill following the wedding.  Not so much a problem for us, but your Marriage Commissioner may have to leave for their next commitment.  We suggest, always start on time - allow plenty of time - PLAN - PLAN - PLAN!  We can help you with your Day Plan - please inquire!

What is a Wedding Director?

Our wedding director not only coordinates the timing of your ceremony - when the groom walks to the arch with the commissioner, when the attendants walk, when the brides walks, but so much more including pinning of corsages and boutonnieres, preparation of your personalized timeline, ceremony site plan, available to you for email and phone consultation for ettiquette, etc.  Large bridal parties and guest counts (100+ guests) requires a director's team of 3 - we work with headsets to coordinate crowd control - making your day as perfect as we can get it! Alot goes on behind the scenes - never underestimate the duties of your Wedding Director!

What happens if it rains?

Always a challenge, but you are responsible for having a back up plan at your hotel or beach home.  We have an indoor chapel at our bridal showroom that accommodates up to 20 guests total in the actual chapel, and it is located about 10 miles inland from the oceanfront.  Other guests can surround in the adjacent waiting area. We can easily reschedule (at no penalty to you) for the following day subject to the Marriage Commissioner's and our wedding schedule for that date.

Do you have a reception site?

Most hotels have banquet managers who will coordinate the food service and menu portion of the reception, but that's about it.  Other planning strategies for all the accessory details can play a huge part in a smooth wedding reception - keep in mind, you have a reception hall for a limited number of hours, so if you pre-plan your events, you and your guests will have a  great time!  Please ask us about this service!

Can the tiki torches be lit?

Sorry, the torches cannot be lit for beach front ceremonies due to City of Virginia Beach code.

What is the Wish to the Sea?

Our special "Wish to the Sea" ceremony follows the main wedding ceremony.  It is a special ceremony where after the bride & groom kiss and may have a photo taken with the marriage commissioner, the bride & groom lead all guests back to the arch, stopping to take a small sand dollar from the shell which is placed on a stand, walking through the wedding arch down to the waters edge, everyone makes a silent wish for the couple's future together!  *upon arrival at the beach front, all of your guests are given a small information sheet describing this ceremony - it's a wonderful way to include everyone in your wedding ceremony!  Following the "wish to the sea", picture taking begins!  **in Hawaii, they call it "blessing of the stones**

What kind of wedding music do you play?

We begin with a variety of 30 minutes worth of soft guest gathering music, leading into the processional / bridal walk; concluding the ceremony with a steel drum version of the wedding march recessional (the kiss!), followed by an additional 30 minutes worth of romantically fun music played during the "Wish to the Sea" and our wedding photography down by the water's edge.

Elopements - I want to get married right away, can you help?

Depending on Officiant availability, we always recommend planning ahead!  During the summer season, definitely book in advance! We would need to check our wedding calendar, as well as the Marriage Commissioner, It is difficult to make this happen on same or one day's notice.  It's always best to allow a couple days.

How can I reserve my date?

To reserve your date and time on our calendar and book your Officiant, we require a retainer of one-half of the total amount for our services that you will be invoiced.  The retainer is applied towards your balance,

How can I pay my retainer?

Retainers can be paid by check, cash, credit card, Pay Pal

When is the balance due?

The balance is due on or before 30 days  prior to the day of the ceremony. We offer an interest free monthly payment plan that easily meets most budgets.

Marriage license and other legal information

Licenses are issued by the circuit court. With photo ID, the couple must both go in person to get your marriage license from any court house within the State of Virginia - it doesn't have to be in Virginia Beach. Information on wedding licenses can be found at http://www.vbgov.com.  The Fee is $30.00 cash for the license, it is valid anywhere in the State of Virginia and is valid for 60 days.  You must apply together in person with picture ID. In Virginia Beach, be sure to leave your camera cell phones in your car, as when you enter through the scanner, you would have to return the phone to your car.  Unlike other states, witnesses are not required in Virginia. A Blood test is not required in the State of Virginia. Divorced? You do not need a copy of your divorce decree,

Who will marry us?

We have a unique selection of wedding officiants, typically a marriage commissioner licensed by the State of Virginia; also known as a  Justice of the Peace, commissioned by the local circuit court Judge.  You can also have your personal  family Pastor, Minister, Reverend or Rabi officiate your ceremony, but be sure they complete the Virginia Beach court paperwork - there's a bit of red tape involved.  A marriage commissioner typically performs a Civil ceremony with little if no religious overtone.  Prayers may be added by request - usually references to 1st Corinthians is included in their ceremonies. Check with us ahead of time.

Personal Vows or Statements

It's always more personal to write your own vows or a brief love letter to each other to read at the ceremony following the traditional vow exchange -if you need assistance, don't hesitate to contact us for suggestions, it's always part of our service to you after you book with us!

Where can we stay for our wedding?

  Depending on the time of year, some oceanfront hotels may give you a small discount off a block of rooms for you and your guests.  If you are not staying at a hotel at the oceanfront, and prefer a somewhat less crowded area, we can suggest renting a beach home at the southern end of Virginia Beach at Sandbridge beach area, and you can make reservations through Siebert Realty or Sandbridge Realty.  a condo on the bay near Chick's Beach off Shore Drive (best sunsets) Chicks Beach Rentals,   or enjoy an oceanfront condo Atkinson Realty  - accommodations are available for all budgets!

When won't you set up for wedding ceremonies - what are your days off?

We do like to take a day off every once in a while and avoid the big tourist crowds that keep us from getting near the beach to unload our wedding arches, and to spend time with our family. We are not available for the following:  New Year's Day, Valentine's Day Evening after 2pm, Easter Sunday, Mother's Day, Memorial Day, Father's Day, 4th of July, Labor Day, Thanksgiving or Christmas Eve, Christmas Day.

What is a Boutonniere?

A boutonniere is the small flower that is pinned to groom's lapel. Groomsmen, ring bearers, and fathers/grandfathers may also wear these flowers.

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this page was updated 7/28/08